Coercive controllers work relentlessly to fracture a child’s attachment with the protective parent. Your job is to be just as intentional about preserving it. This means being the steady, safe presence they can return to when they are ready. Clarity Without Confrontation Children in these situations are often confused. They hear one reality at the …
Why Children Align with the Abuser (and Why It’s Not Their Fault) It’s one of the hardest things a protective parent can experience. Watching their child align with the person who has caused so much harm. It feels like betrayal. But in reality, it’s survival. Children do not have the cognitive or emotional capacity to …
“Coercive control is child abuse.” That statement may feel harsh to some, but not calling it what it is would be a lie. When a coercive controller manipulates and conditions a child, teaching them to distrust, fear, or reject their protective parent – it is abuse. It is a deeply insidious form of psychological warfare, …
Your ex isn’t just being difficult… they are using your child to control you. This isn’t co-parenting. This is abuse. While they play the calm, collected parent in court, you’re left fighting for your child’s well-being, painted as the unstable one. Sound familiar? Introduction Coercive control is the underpinning of all abuse. It can be …
